There was a time when hubster and I would have an amazing date night which included dinner at a hatted restaurant and/or a gig by one of our favourite bands. These days it’s hard to leave the house without having to lug half of the kids’ belongings, fatigue and sleep deprivation notwithstanding. An outing over the weekend was a drama in itself with Kid #1 throwing a tantrum due to overtiredness and Kid #2 refusing to sleep and therefore crying because of – guess what? – overtiredness. It’s hard work at the moment, yes, and one day hubster and I will look back and long for the days when the kiddies were bubs. I also look forward to the day when we can enjoy evenings like we used to and remind each other why we’re together.